The Costs of this Fiasco

As I alluded to in my last post, the costs to me of this fiasco are extremely high. I am not talking about court costs as no costs were awarded either way, meaning that each party pays there own costs, ha ha!. I am talking about the emotional costs and the family ties that have been destroyed.

I have been dragged through a process that is incredibly questionable in terms of the conduct of others in my view. They would argue not, however if we explore the actions of others and the costs to me a little, I think that where things have landed will confirm my views as being correct.

Before the divorce started, I had solid relationships with all of my children, my Ex Wife and grandchildren. I was a fairly happy guy who would assist and indeed had assisted people on many occasions. I was considered as a fairly robust character who was capable of taking life’s knocks and getting on with and through them.

Now lets look at what occurred through out the divorce from others.

My first daughter